Becoming that girl !
I’m sure you must have seen hundreds of ‘that girl’ videos while scrolling on the multiple social media platforms.
It is a growing trend on the internet where an ideal girl is seen leading a perfect hassle-free life. But, in reality, being ‘that girl’ is something much more than that.
‘That girl’ is someone who is totally committed towards her self-improvement and works relentlessly to achieve her goals.
If you too, are set to become that girl in 2023, here is everything you need to know.
Who is ‘that girl’?
‘That girl’ is the best and highest version of oneself.
She keeps herself on the top of her priority list. She is confident with her decisions and focused towards making a better life everyday.
Being that girl also means respecting your own boundaries and maintaining healthy relationships that really matter to you.
What are the benefits of being ‘that girl’?
When you are working to be that girl, you are working on yourself to create a better you. This develops a growth mindset and further allows more space for your personal growth.
It also evokes a feeling of self-love within you. Working on self-growth makes you more secure as a person and urges you to be yourself, no matter what.
How to become ‘that girl’?
If you follow these following steps regularly, it will help you become that girl:
1. Wake up early
“Well begun is half done.”
Well, if you win your morning, you win the day!
Start it right. Waking up early has immense benefits. Start your day earlier than usual, as the first step towards becoming that girl.
2. Follow a morning routine
Following routines is an easy way to get through your day.
Start your day by following a proper morning routine. This will set a good base and help to organize the day in a better way.
3. Work on your fitness
One of the most important habit of that girl is working on fitness. She keeps herself physically fit and works constantly to attain the goal of optimum physical fitness.
Do workout, yoga and other activities to stay fit.
4. Keep your mental health in check
Along with physical fitness, mental wellbeing must be given equal importance. So, keep a regular check on your mental health by doing essential activities.
You can try journaling, meditation, practicing affirmations, positive self-talk and more.
5. Stay well-informed
Always keep yourself updated with what is happening around you. Keep yourself well-informed by reading articles, newspapers and interviews. This will make you confident and help you be more aware of the outside world, too.
6. Keep educating yourself
Nothing is more attractive than a well-read woman. But this does not mean that you should know about everything under the Sun. Just keep on adding something to your knowledge everyday.
Read books that have quality material, blogposts that provide relevant knowledge and listen to insightful podcasts.
7. Stay organized
Organize everything, from your wardrobe to you life!
Organizing promotes clear thinking and helps to get your life together. Try various interesting patterns and combinations for organizing.
8. Take a healthy diet
Eating healthy implies your care for the body you reside in. So, always be careful of what you put in to it.
Eating clean and healthy food not only promotes your physical wellbeing but it also gives the clarity of thoughts.
Therefore, start eating cleaner and avoid junk food.
9. Hydration is the key
I’m sure you must have heard this a million times and it may seem repetitive. But, this is the ultimate fact.
Proper hydration can solve most of your health issues. Better skin, hair, nails and everything- hydration is the key!
Increase your daily water intake by having water-rich fruits, juices and smoothies into your daily diet.
10. Dress appropriately
Always dress according to the occasion. To achieve the best results, create your own dressing aesthetic.
For this, study your body type and always keep in mind about your comfort.
11. Take out time for self-care
Make different self-care routines and follow them regularly.
Following suitable skincare, haircare and body-care routines, help in developing the overall personality.
12. Work on details
Small details never go unnoticed!
So, work on those details. The details about your physical appearance as well as your overall personality and behavior.
Important tips for becoming that girl:
1. Discipline over motivation
Do not wait for motivation because it may not last forever. Instead, get yourself disciplined about your routine, eating habits, health and everything that matters to you.
2. Start small and stay consistent
Do not make the mistake of doing everything at once and get overwhelmed. Because at the end you might end up with either giving up or burning out.
So, make small changes in the early stages and stay committed to them.
3. Show up each day
No matter how monotonous the routine might seem but do not forget to show up each day.
Regardless of whatever little pain you may have to bear today, keep in mind the bigger and the ultimate picture and work for it. Make it happen!
Inspirational quotes to be ‘that girl’:
” A girl should be two things- who and what she wants.”
” The most alluring thing a woman can have is confidence. “
” Become addicted to constant and never-ending self-improvement.”
At the end of the day, you should accept who you are and work towards becoming a better version of yourself everyday.
Take this as a fun challenge and work consistently on it.
Do not treat it as some huge task to be done. But, look at it as an investment you are doing for a better tomorrow.
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